There was a day where some of the soldiers in my class decided to go to Olive garden.. mmm OLIVE GARDEN!!! who couldnt resist? so that was the plan or so we thought.. i am sooo sorry let’s back track a lil.. and for your info I do this a lot so hang tight and enjoy the ride..

CAG (his initials i have decided not to use names after all) n I, never really talked or carried on much conversations he was the platoon guide “PG” and was not much of a socialite well so i thought until this fateful night.. jeje

Okay back to basics.. so CAG and I went to Olive garden but wait.. where is everyone else?? They were at the Hacienda aka the Whorecienda.. lol but too busy to wanna grub in a restaurant that gives you unlimited salad/soup and breadsticks and are still confident you will still order an entree.. but anyways that was the start of something new.. because we did not have anyone accompanying us we had some free time for ourselves.. you know to “get to know eachother” more than we thought we would give eachother.. but it happened.. the flirting.. the talking.. the gazing.. the questioning.. the butterflies WAIT.. feelings? but wait hes from Texas.. wait he must be pretty wealthy.. wait he’s totally not what you normally look for.. wait he must be a spoiled brat that gets everything he wants.. and best of all hes white? huh? this is not like me.. umm I just finished getting cheated on while in basic training.. i told myself i wouldnt do it.. look for anyone i mean.. but i didnt look for it, it just came didnt it? What would YOU say? It must be meant to be.. wait he IS from TEXAS.. wait HIS DAD is the one thats wealthy not him.. wait HE has VALUES.. FINALLY what i was NOT LOOKING FOR.. HE did NOT get everything he wanted he too had to earn it.. WAIT THERES MORE: we are very much alike in age.. just 2 and 1/2 months apart.. oooh!! and the feelings.. they were almost addictive like i couldnt wait to feel more.. check this one out.. him being white wasn’t an issue after all.. I WAS THE FIRST TO SAY THE WORDS.. “I L…L….ove.. YyyOu!” ME?!!!! I have NEVERRRRR!! before a guy? it was an unspoken rule.. but i didnt care, I said it in a matter of a month and a 1/2 I KNEW WITH ALL MY HEART I LOVED HIM! I didnt have to try to make him happy I just did and in about a week he said it back.. HOLD ON the best part was we hadnt even slept together yet? how many places could you have possibly done the deed being away at training? there werent very many so our first time was in his fully loaded perfect nissan altima.. and I call it LoVe MaKiNg for a reason because besides our first kiss it was one of the most electrifying experiences in my entire life.. it was soooo sincere and so genuine and passionate it should have been the epitome of a sex.. no LOVEMAKING.. some kind of love scene out of the notebook or something.. NOOOO!! it was better!!! But going back to the kiss.. now the first kiss was soo picturesque it was underneath a streetlight near my barracks.. kinda like a military dorm room pretty much.. but anyways.. it was under there.. and it came so natural.. it felt like it came out of a novel or a script.. and you know how in movies the romantic music goes really loud when it comes time for the couple to kiss well thats how it was.. that was the first significant point of the start of our relationship.. or should i say love story.. now we are happily married who wouldve known.. man.. I LOVE HIM!

So this day was the most.. exciting.. joyful.. blissful.. any adjectives that go along with being happy you can add to the list.. you know why? Because I was marrying the most “perfect for me” man on this earth.. the story about us I will share later.. it was quite random.. but thats my life story.. pretty random.. digressing get back Xio.. but umm yes it was months of planning and headaches and *itching.. and too much input from people who weren’t even going to make it too my wedding.. from WHY DONT YOU GET A CAKE?!! WHY DONT YOU.. WHY DONT YOU AGGGGHHHH!!!!.. AND GET THIS.. DO THIS.. DO THAT.. SHUT UPPPPP!! So its over.. fun on the day I just layed back and let my body go in cruise control.. everything just happened.. and I loved every bit of it.. I loved the 1400 dollars we got from friends and family and the gathering we had at our house.. except the crazy kids jumping on my couch.. spilling icecream on my *sigh* SUEDE chairs.. my A/C had no reason to be on.. because doors opened and closed about every nano second.. but everything else felt like home.. only one thing i wouldve changed from it all and thats having my ENTIRE family there.. especially my Grandma.. I love her.. and my really close friends.. but we’re still undecided whether we should do a small reception next year.. would be nice.. but time.. not so much money.. but prioritizing.. but anyways ultimately.. where my life is right now minus the Army I am happy..